This last weekend I went on a journey to see a person from the future. She was totally amazing and knew everything about herself.
I was filled with questions for her……but the one answer she gave that stood out above the rest was this.
She said in order for her to learn to listen, really listen to the Universe and herself she lived in the forests of the USA for 2 years. I thought….wow…..how can someone give up their entire life and live on the land for 2 years, without anyone with you, none of your personal items, just BE.
For her it was a direct knowing from her spirit, literally her spirit took everything away, cleared her career, family, gave her money, and all she needed and directed her to live in the forest until she could hear so well that there was never a doubt about her purpose ever again.
I am still mind blown!
I hear intuitively well, but I have never gotten such a straightforward direction for myself.
Moving on….I went there because I was looking for an upgrade. And yes, I got an upgrade about what the future holds and all that is to come. Be on the lookout for some super important and amazing activity in the near future.
In the meantime here is what I suggest……if you want that kind of direction for yourself…..start with cleaning out the lymphatic system, then be in nature as much as possible.
- Do your meditations in nature,
- go for walks in the forest,
- sit by trees,
- swim in the water,
- drink from a natural spring.
Anything that will allow the silence to enter your cells.
All we really want is to feel joy. Doesn’t this sum up life?
As we enter into 2023, this time of year always brings us to feeling like we need to set some big goals that are filled with opportunities.
The most important goal you need and should set this year is this: Learn to say YES to the real you!
That’s it……..all you need to do. Because I’m pretty sure you have not mastered this yet. I am here to help you achieve this task and here are 3 ways to create a life that is filled with joy, deep love and amazing mind blowing conversations.
- Set Boundaries and hold them. Nothing creates inner chaos more than you not standing by what you say and do. When you blur the boundaries you set for yourself it sends a clear message to other people that they can walk all over you.
- Live your life according to what you desire. When you live according to desire you are living free with the soul because it is the soul that seeks, not the ego. The ego is lazy, and doesn’t want change. The soul is always wanting to grow and expand and it creates this by having desires.
- Trust who you are. This is the most important thing in anyone’s life that they trust themselves. Trust to know your boundaries. Trust to hold yourself responsible. Trust to be wise. Trust to be unattached. Trust to forgive. Trust your ability to unify and harmonize with the Universe. Trust yourself as the creator of your life. Trust yourself to love the people who support and cherish you as the Goddess you are.
These natural abilities will create so much freedom in your energy because you are saying YES to your natural self.
Enjoy your power and Happy New Year!
P.S. – I have a new book coming out this year. I can’t wait to share it with you.
P.S.S – I would love to be your soul mentor this year. Click here to find out more.
Why am I here?
What am I supposed to do here?
What’s my real purpose?
All valid questions…..and the answers – or sometimes no answers – can be very frustrating. We have these beliefs that drill into us to succeed, make money, be spiritual…..the list is endless. But then, we have this awakening along the way and all hell breaks loose.
Those questions become deeper, more meaningful, more plague-full, nagging and often make you feel desperate. Those questions make you doubt yourself, make you feel worthless and often cause loneliness. But, I encourage you to keep asking them.
What if the entire reason we – as humans – are here, is not what we think. What if our purpose is not for ourselves but for the conscious evolution of the Universe?
And we live on earth because we are the cells that help Earth evolve. Your own awareness, curiosity, ability to create a life you desire is what feeds the Earth ultimately feeding the Universe. How does this change your perception?
Your real purpose is to harmonize yourself. Not to swing or stay too long in highs or lows, rather to find harmony with the Universe. There is no struggle when you are in harmony.
Harmony becomes complicated when you add in the fact that we live in a Universe based on positives and negatives. Science and life teach us that we need both positives and negatives to create here. Having both positives and negatives in one place causes conflict because everything is measured from a variety of perspectives. This conflict of positives and negatives become tools of creation.
Think about your life, when have you used this tactic? I talk about my boredom frequently. This is my tool to alert me that I need to be creating something. It is my negative that creates a positive motivator to do. This inner conflict keeps me in harmony – when I am out of harmony – I am signaled/triggered by boredom, my inner memo to acknowledge that I have not been creating.
Conflict should not be used as a tool to fight for something, rather it should be a tool to find harmony. This is our biggest lesson!
We are currently at a crossroads in this lesson. In our past we have used conflict as a weapon, to kill, destroy, manipulate, and control. It has not served us well. If we continue down this path, we will find a way to destroy ourselves yet again.
The real reason you are here is to become the harmony. You do this by acknowledging that you are light, not to become light, you already possess it. By using your light (wisdom) to work through your shadows, to understand duality as a tool to manifest and create and not be afraid to enter a state of void, where you are Consciousness – the whole.
To reach this state of wholeness or Unity you have to void yourself of all dualities – positives and negatives. This is a state of freedom, void of everything that belongs to duality. I have experienced this state of being and it is very pleasant until you bump up against people and energy that lives in duality, that projection often pulls you back into duality.
To be in a process of constant evolution a society has to move along this path. We, as a human race, are not along this path. Sure, some of us try to harmonize with nature, the Universe but very few can maintain this status while living life.
If we used conflict as a tool to harmonize, we would constantly be asking ‘what next?’, questioning everything, critically thinking, and actually being aware of what is. However, for a world to expand and grow it has to have high conflict. Without high conflicts there is no growth.
Because we are not constantly questioning and being curious, the earth does not grow, slowing down the evolution of humanity and the Universe.
Stay tuned, more to come next week….
When you run from your emotions, stuff them or completely deny them because you fear the feelings then you are creating more shadows in you.
Carl Jung led the way in discussing, explaining and encouraging us to explore our shadow. The parts of our psyche that we try hard to keep hidden. They are those repressed emotions, those traumatic experiences that we just want to forget and the personality traits that we don’t want to acknowledge.
Afterall, we just want to be God-like, to not have ill thoughts, bad experiences, be judged by others and most of all to be perfect. Whatever those things mean to me.
But, the more we repress the negative side of ourselves the more of it we create and soon we have limited our self-perception to almost nothing.
This plays right into what I talked about last week about negatives, positives and duality. Remember our soul purpose here is to become harmony. A tree doesn’t stop growing because it loses a branch in a storm, rather it grows a new root to stabilize itself more for the next storm.
You cannot manifest if you deny yourself your shadows. Because of duality you have to have both negatives and positives in order to create and manifest – it’s just how this world works. Until you make the unconscious conscious it will plague you and direct your life. It leads to limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, destructive behavior and ruined relationships.
Because we are at a crossroads in evolution I want to help you with your shadows. They are not bad parts of you, they are simply contrasts and inner conflicts. When you make some type of meaning out of them they transform. It’s time to transform.
Learn more about Soul Purpose Mentoring.
I know this feminine wounded woman……I have been her for so long. There are many of us who feel so deprived. We have been surviving in the masculine energy and not thriving in our Goddess self. It’s been a lonely world trying to survive.
I remember being in high school and believing in the fairy tales of romance, love, travel, seeing and being a part of the world. Long story short that did not happen until I created my business. As I stood in my own power using my voice as an expression of my soul, everything changed. The longings for romantic travel, loving deeply and being in a world rich with connections became my reality when I listened to my Intuition.
Feminine energy teaches us that we are intuitive beings, are you using your intuition to the max?
My intuition is off the charts! I have always been intuitive but the deeper I release from my wounds the more intuitive I become. I love helping people using my intuition because it is never wrong. It is the one area in my life where I feel free, overwhelmingly confident and super connected.
I have spent a lifetime healing from my Mother wounds, the feeling of soul abandonment and recently betrayal of a past life.
Here are a few signs you have wounded feminine energy.
- Reject compliments or help. I was leading a retreat and we were getting off a boat, the crew, who were men, held their hands out to help us out of the boat. There were several women who did not accept their help. It was fascinating to watch.
- Over emotional. I don’t know anyone who says they want to be emotional. But when you stuff your emotions, hold them, repress them….then finally one day you just bust and the emotions just don’t stop. You feel embarrassed and repress them again until the next time.
- Form your opinions and base decisions on everyone else. This has never been a problem for me, and I can’t tell you how many times I have gotten the look or kick under the table from others (men and women) who want me to shut up. But, I see this all the time with clients.
- Ignore intuition. This is the wound of being judged, people thinking I’m crazy.
- People pleasing. Needing approval and praise. Our masculine dominated society loves this one.
Here are a few things you can do to heal your feminine wounds.
And it doesn’t matter if you are a woman or a man, we all have these wounds.
- Find time for introspection. Really understand who you are, what your wants and needs are and then create a plan to release your true self.
- Express yourself. Write, journal, draw, create a blog, write a letter, and burn it.
- Listen. Really listen to your intuition and act upon it.
It is time for the feminine to be seen and heard. We cannot survive any longer being repressed.
I HAVE ALWAYS LISTENED TO MY INTUITION….
And I can promise you one thing……you will never be the same when you listen. Really listen to your higher self.
If you are ready to start listening to your feminine gifts of Intuition, I recommend starting with Akashic Records.